Yak:
You scare me!
were:
First, it's not that I have bad luck with women in general; I just have bad luck when it comes to choosing them (so far I've chosen the wrong ones).
Secondly, I 'am an "educated" man, and as such I have some of the green stuff too... BUT having a woman that wants me for my money isn't cool... I like watching Joe Millionaire, its funny... but living it would be entirely different!
Thirdly, all my colleagues are past their "best before date", but besides that (and more importantly) I'm not attracted to them in any way. The intern is very nice, and I do have a really good rapport with her, BUT she's got a boyfriend that she truly likes, and I'm going to respect that (but if he fucks it up in the next few months...
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Silverhaze:
Yeah, I?m pretty sure I?d like to meet a girl at a club. If she?s at a club, she?s more outgoing than I ?am right now. I need a girl that will pull me along with her for a good time. Left to my own devices, I sit at home playing games, and watching movies? nothing else.
The last of my friends (who was single) got married last September, and let me tell you, it?s a weird feeling to be the last man standing after all these years. It feels creepy to try and persuade one of your buddies to ditch his wife for a night on the town, especially since a night on the town can no longer be what it used to be? you can no longer go where single women are with a married man, he?s suddenly turned chicken shit on you!
I?m not looking for just any girl though (because that?s what the preceding paragraphs kind of suggest). I?m not feeling old, and suddenly feel the need to latch on to some chick either. None of that, but I do feel like its time for me to move on too? to reach that next phase in my life.
Do any of you guys no people who are really old, 40 - 50+ and are single, never having been married? I do, I can think of three of them off the top of my head! Turning into one of them does scare me; that I can admit. These people are like fucking ghosts! They?re here, but not really? the only thing that?s in their future is a coffin!
So I?m seriously going to start looking, because right now I have the time I need to still be selective, and still end up with someone. If I wait another 5 years or so, well then I?ll be past my ?prime?, and have no other choice but to rummage through the leftovers!
A few of things about meeting women at the gym.
1) Most of the women at the gym, they need to be at the gym. They?re weighing in at around a solid deuce!
2) For the few women who are at the gym because they want to maintain their bodies, they?re all ready taken! (Trust me; I?ve done my homework on this!)
3) There?s no context for approaching a girl at the gym, to do so would be considered creepy!
Around here, there?s really no difference between pubs, bars, or clubs? sure there are those with certain reputations (and I won?t go to them) but the rest are usually pretty predictable.
So I?ll see what happens next weekend.
Thanks for your input guys? I?ll keep you posted on my scouting/recruiting situation!